Relationship - The Top 10 Mistake Women Make in a Relationship

These 10 mistakes that women globally make be it, an existing relationship or new relationship will guide you as to what to avoid.

Contrary to what women believe over the centuries - men are not complex hard species to figure out they are very open and direct in their actions. The signs are all there, you just have to look closely.

Many women often asked the question “Where did I go wrong?” A very popular question when the relationship, is already over or have gone too far to be repaired by the couple’s own efforts.

1. We are all aware that men love women with brains and beauty, and 9 out of 10 times beauty is preferred to brains. An excessively talkative or chatty woman is not part of that beauty package – sorry girls. I am not saying to be dumb, just know that there is a time for talking; the male brain can only process so much and no more. If you find yourself saying, "I thought I mentioned that before," Yes, It definitely means you have out talked yourself and so you will need to repeat it again and then you get frustrated and the guy is left feeling like a total duffus for not remembering. Guys do not want to feel like they have to be a CPU (central processing unit).

2. Do not play mind games. Putting a guy to the test will only hurt you. So you love flowers and want him to start bringing you flowers, don't tell him that you love the flowers your girlfriend’s boyfriend gave her. It is OK to tell him that you love flowers and what your favorite kind of flowers are – don’t get hang up over flowers if you do not receive flowers either.

3. Do not read too much into everything. Often time women will hear guys say that women read too much into everything or some famous words; she is going through PMS, She is Miserable or she is a Nag. This behavior can quickly turn serious relationship, to no relationship in a second, because a quarrel can start out of reading something into nothing and before you know it, you are both nowhere.

4. Not trusting your man. This is an almost immediate cause for a down spiral relationship. When a woman suddenly stops trusting her guy or never had trust in the first place. It does become obvious in a short time because no trust brings, suspicions and that leads to reading too much out of everything, then accusations that leads to quarrels; then no communication - then withdrawals and before you know it you are single again.

5. DO NOT talk to your girlfriends about everything and everything that happens in your relationship. Men do not like to have their personal lives put under a microscope and knowing that girlfriends know about everything that goes on makes them very self conscious and can affect spontaneity in a relationship.

6. Do not badger a guy about his Ex. To a man this shows insecurity, jealously and lack of confidence in you. Furthermore girls, an Ex is such for a reason, they only came for a season.

7. Do not use tears to get what you want. A guy wants to feel that he is your man, your knight in shining armor; he does not want to be your dad when you throw tantrums he throws you a Lollypop. Ladies it is OK to cry, PMS cramps are real crazy at times, and sometimes emotions are too, but please skip the tears to get a man to give in to you.

8. Do not make it a habit to remind a man of his responsibility. All men know what their responsibilities are in any relationship, reminding them makes them feel like little boys all over again, and also gets them thinking, that you are trying to be their mothers.

9. Stop giving ultimatums. Women please, stop threatening the men about leaving them if they don't do whatever. Ultimatums will only cause men to see what you are made of. The only person who gets hurt is you.

10. Do not ever force a man to marry you. SO, you have been in the relationship for a while and things are going great, you want more; well instead of nagging and sending your friends to push the subject of marriage, please let your man bring the subject up and yes, it will come up, casually sometimes off guard when you are snuggling on the couch, during your pillow talk but whatever you do, do not go off like a speed gun, just make it a fun topic don't get all serious and planning the celebrity getaway. MARRIAGE! It is the one most fearful subject to all men.

Ladies, men will look and we do too - as there is nothing wrong with looking and admiring someone. It it goes to lusting and wanting the person sexually that's not cool when you are already involved; so take time with your man, love him, appreciate him – optimize the good in him by allowing yourself to be the best you can be.

Finally never sacrifice scrap for quality – let me clarify, make sacrifices for a relationship that is worth having. If the red flags are popping up everywhere and it’s too much to handle, don’t panic, thank the Lord for talking to your inner woman and for showing you signs for your protection, then you need to high tail it out of that relationship.